Im nuts for this gal c. but i cant get the balls to talk to her..I go to about 5 feet and then run away.. would ask member's experianced in this field to PLEAZZ>.. HELP ME.. I CANT STOP THINKIN ABOUT HER>.

Talk to her, casually, like you would with any of your other friends, you know get friendly, get into conversations etc. Then when you think she's a friend, ask her out, thats why I could've done, but you know me, conservative mama's boy.

mmm This thread might be help full
http://pakistanidefenceforum.com/index.php?showtopic=42577
or watch the Movie THE HITCH (will smith)

u'll get the idea

i cant believe u posted that thread again

Naah.. I get to do all that.. I just fail in the last few feet.. funny only happens with the girls i like.din happen to me when I met some of my friends..
this one I like and I cant SPeak IN front of her.. no responce from the mouth.. serious comm error in nervous system.

LOl..unreachable.. that is normal response for us Pk's.. one foriegner girl and everybody loses it. Lol.. I remember a bbc documentary on lahore.. the brit was showered with roses by every maila for 15 miles.

how many girls do you like?



Find out her budday and then buy a box of heart shaped chocolates and go upto her and give it to her on that day. Don't say anything. Then find her msn, and start chatting.


taubah taubah taubah!

Look, think about it this way, what is the worst thing that can happen, she tells you to get lost, you never speak to her again. Wow, big deal, i mean you don't speak to her right now either do you, the sky has yet to fall!

Just do it, grow some balls, go upto her, chat to her, say hi, how you doing? Take it from there, talk about relevant stuff......

.....and if u really need some time, just look her in the eye and smile....

just walk up to her and tell her you just want to "get laid." Trust me, it works:laugh:

This will work

Take one of your casual girl friend and pretend around this girl that she is your girlfriend. Girls always want to snatch other girls boyfriends(genetic or whatever they worked for me o yea)

And watch "some about marry" bathroom gel scene. man that is true. never keep a gun loaded in tense situations.


hope this help buddy,

SAint

Thanks guys.. but everytime I get that done.i go to 5 feet.. and then hear something falling down my pants.. and there go my balls... No matter how hard I try. how hard I psyche myself up.. its weird.. I asked a freind of mine to set me up.. she did.. then when I was gonna meet her.. again.. my balls took a walk.

Just do it man, brush your teeths put a nice smell on. thats it.

Girls want the same thing as guys just a little bit more sometimes.

DO IT JUST DO IT

How old are you?

Old enough to be have sexual feelings teddy..
I was a sucker fur gurls in high skool...college isnt any different..
1 yr and im a engineer..wooo

yea take it from platinum, he's is a real playa..... big time pimpin......... yo yo......

jk

dude, just go up to her and say it,the worse that can happen is a slap on your face,but thats it,
if she liles you then she is yours

I thought this is a Members Introduction Forum, not a Dating Forum.

meh,

mmmm .... i think this might be help for u to understand ur problem

http://health.yahoo.com/centers/testicular_cancer/1.html

chao

I think i have rogue testicles. seem to back off when in need.
anyways.. Ima try.. tell you If i got anywhere

stop talking about ur testicles

just go up to her & say it. if she likes u, u may have a chance. if she doesn't, then.........
ur nervousity will ruin everything. just act normal, confident, and strong. try not to look worried.

First of all, you need to make sure this is the girl you really want. Yaar, I think the best and safest way is not to approach her from nowhere. She will get bad thoughts about you. Instead, do some research. Find out what type of girl she is. For all you know, you may turn out not to like her. After that, find out what clubs or activities she does and join them. Also, Meet her friends! Try to hang out with them as well. Find out what she likes and do those things. If you don't like them, too bad, get used to them. After a while, you'll get to meet her and talk to her and it'll just go on from there. Sorry, but I can't take your hand and walk you through this step by step. Good luck!

Kamal kertay ho yaar.

Just tell her to give u her number coz ur parents need to talk,agay kuch kehnay ki zaroorat nahi.:P:P

btw,i had the same problem,it happens if u really like someone,i failed once and got approved on the second girl,but alas,desi-amin is right,i didnt like her afterwards.
Now im too busy to get into all that.

DOne 3 yrs of engineering?which univ?

Take her to motel & spike her drink... After 20 minutes you will not like her.. know what i mean ..... If ur in Pakistan u can get away with it......

you seem experienced ... follow him angel

In AU sharjah.. trying to get a transfer to manchester.. they give the last year as indrustrial placment.. so I can get to spend a year in airbus indrustrie or BAE systems

I did a lot of research on her.. one of my friends knows her family and they seem like nice people.. lol.. though I aint in this for life.. but she is cute.. smart...and homely.. what else would a guy want.

Approach her, be cocky and funny, dont act different cause ure talking to a girl, just be ureself, and look her in the eye at all times. (Chicks pupils dylate when theyr attracted, so look for those signs while ure talking to her)

& look at her tits too.. if they become pointy thats another sign

why don't you go for marriage then, if she's nice and from good family. If you have good intentions (ie marriage) instead of gf, Allah will help you too !! Talk to your parents and tell them about her. They can talk to her and her parents. And then you'll be all set!!

oai haath helkaa rekh bhai. yaha londia bhee perhnai aati hain

oooooooooo bhensssssssssss

Oh i thought u were serious in the long run,why wud u do so much research if ur not ready to commit....

man i thought i was a player

third_reich man u killed this topic......

O cmon man, no offence, but getting ure parents to ask the girl out for u seems too......pathetic to me for some reason. Gotta have the balls to ask her out ure self man. Even if its for the long run.

Well said.

damn!

cmm.. on man. kuch to ezat karo .. after all its some ones love man

correction : someone whose hormones are high.......

thanks for the correction
hey angel this mighty be helpful
http://health.yahoo.com/centers/testicular_cancer/1.html

do it quickly man...do it..


"Soochi Paya Tay Banda Gaya"

yeh similar thing happened to me..

u havent cleared the whole situation..i mean..are u both class fellows, neighbours, cousins..or colleagues...?

lol.. yaar if I tell you its gonna sound one heck of a crazy story, here goes anyway:

My friend who doing his Ba right now asked me to do him a favour, He had his cousin in some skewl doing A-LEVEL (pervert). Some time back he had an affair with her, then she dumped him for another guy, apparently another guy could offer her a good ####. Now understandably this guy was heart broken an wanted revenge ...so this loser asks me to "pataofy" her.. first i was like are you nuts.. Im sitting in a frikkin college and she is in A levels.. hello..
but he's helped me get a bj from an annt ho in the past so I obliged(hoping for another bj), Eventually Since my cousin is in the same skewl I did some khwari(for non -pk's meaning research) and got to know about this girl, then i asked my friend about it, and Lo voila!, he does not want me to go after this girl anymore, i was like"bc mein chution ki tarah tere liye khwar hoya hoon aur ab tune apni randi ko maaf kardiya".. so then..he said i can take her friend.. I said the hell with it, I was doing it for ya otherwise i dont get into kids, But then he showed me a pic.. and MANNN... pretty face was somthing.. WHAt tits..what ass... .... I was hooked...but apart from all that she looked nice.. so upon urging by this guy I decieded to pursue her.. returned to sharjah.. and when I returned i had forgotten her, then out of nowhere when I went to pick my bro up from his school..there she is.even hotter than b4.. and looking like a "grown" woman... so.. the gears in my brain and the punps in my hormonal glands went into overdrive.. I got her mail.. did the old teenager trick of MSN. but then when I had the chance ta meet her.. ................... I freaked out.

what u said didnt make any sense ....... please tell me ur telling this after watching some gay Indian movie........

Sounds like it doesnt it
I think ill sell this to Yash chopra
He excells in making gay freaky movies..(Kal HO na Ho.. lol.. my story does sound like part of that plot.. i think i better clarify it better.

This topic really should be closed.

what?... what are you saying, you almost got laid then you didnt and you felt like sharing this with people interested in talking about the defence of pakistan and other military matters?... wow dude you need help

Angel, I found this for you. Please read all of it!

"A WISH........ "

As I sat there in english class, I stared at the girl next to me. She
was my so called 'best friend'. I stared at her long, silky hair, and
wished
she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After
class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had
missed the day before.I handed them to her. She said 'thanks' and gave
me a
kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I dont
want
to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I
dont know why.

11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on
and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come
over
because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on
the
sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours,
one
Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to
sleep.
She looked at me, said 'thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheak. I want
to
tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I
love
her but I'm just too shy, and I dont know why.

Seinor year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she
said, hes
not gonna go" well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a
promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together-just as
'best
friends'. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was
standing
at her front door step. I stared at her as she she
smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be
mine,
but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said- "I
had
the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell
her,
I want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but
I'm
just too shy, and I don't know why.

A day passed, then a week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect
body
floated likean angle up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be
mine- but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before
everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as i
hugged her. Then she lifted her head from myshoulder and said- 'you're
my
best friend, thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell
her, I
want her to know that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but
I'm
just too shy, and I don't know why.

Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married. That girl is getting married now. I
watched
her say 'i do' and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I
wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it.
But
before she drove gtaway, she came to me and said 'you came!'. She said
'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to
know
that I dont want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I
don't know why.

Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl
who used to be my 'best friend'. At the service, they read a diary
entry she
had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:

I stare at him wishing he was mine; but he doesn't notice me like that,
and
I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to
be
just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I
wish
he would tell me he loved me!

'I wish I did too...' I thought to my self, and i
cried. Do yourself a favor, tell her/him you love
them. they won't be there forever.

Dude I have another thing like that too... ...
But seriously I think I better do somthing b4 its too late..
And ted get lost.. I needed some motivation.. I got some.. unlike you I dont open multiple topics in the AF forum just to ask stupid "duuH" questions.. somewhat like homer simpson...

And uh psycoo I dont think everybody here has only defence matters to discuss.. they arent all geeks and nerds who have nothing else in thier lives to do except disuss about Pakistan's defence.. most here come from different backgrounds and experiances.. and some could relate. So If ure the geek with nothing else in his life except spending his life in front of the computer screen.. dont reach others to do so.

To paraphrase JayZ
"You havin girl problems let me tell you summin son! I got 99 problems but a ###### ain't one!"

Seriously, if you really like her and when I say like I mean like in terms of a long term relationship not in terms of a good lay just have the goddamn guts to go upto her and spill out whatever feelings you have about her. Trust me it works, worked for some of my buddies(and all of them are happilly engaged).
Otherwise cutting in half old Lahori slang shairi about Kinnaird college: "Door say nazara kar, Hath say guzara kar!"
Lahorites(young males definitely) would know the first verse of the above quoted couplet

I dont know if the Cocky and funny strategy would work in a Paki society(give it a try though). But try being cocky and keep making her laugh, keep eye contact, make sure u dont seem like a wuss by being a lil needy or insecure, get the msn and at the same time get the number.

If she makes up an excuse like how she doesnt have a phone number, just laugh and tell her "You honestly expect me to believe that?" <I picked this off from a friend of mine and believe me i couldnt believe how fast they came up with the phone numbers if u say it.

Once uve got the number then im sure u know what to do lol.

redgriffin

You live in the GTA in Ontario? One of my friends (Jahanzeb) is named JayZ in school.

Anyways, what I did was, I walked past the girl, smiled and said hi. Around, I think it was a couple periods later she said hi back and we started to talk. Though I just did that to get new friends, no relationship, but hell it worked.